Why voluntarily tell your girlfriend or boyfriend the truth if the end result will be a break up? So you cheated on your girlfriend/boyfriend, if they find out they will break up with you, if you tell them the truth (no matter what they say, like "if you just tell me the truth it'll be fine= total BS) they will break up with you. SO WHY TELL THEM? Okay, yes it's on your conscious and if it makes you not be able to sleep at night then sure, you might as well tell them, clear the air so you each can move on without each other and be happy.
OR, if you are in love with the person and couldn't bare the thought of losing them, or the opposite, not at all in love with the person and don't feel like putting up with fighting and breaking up because it's just easier to stick out the relationship and the fact that you cheated doesn't really bother you, then what's the incentive to tell the truth? Sure, the latter would be a lot worse if they ended up finding out later, but in looking at the former, the end result no matter what is going to be a break up. And if you can't bare the thought of losing that person, then you'd probably lose just as much sleep over the breakup as you do with cheating being on your conscious for a month or so before you realize she's not going to find out and there's no reason to worry about getting caught so now you can sleep soundly.
And let's be honest, the only reason that would be on your conscious is because you're worried of getting caught, perhaps a minority would actually have it on their conscious because they feel so terrible for lying that they can't sleep. But if they felt that terrible, then why'd they cheat.
So who can you trust?
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