In life there, primarily in relationships (whether it be in marriage, girlfriend/boyfriend, or family relationships between parents and children) so many things rely upon trusting the other person. Trust can even fall into the category of work as well between co-workers or boss and the people who work under him. Mainly however, I will focus on trust in relationships.
The idea of building trust, maintaining trust, it's incredible when I think about this aspect. Now I don't want this to just be some lame blog post on Trust and I'm trying to make it interesting so here's my attempt.
Trusting a girlfriend just seems difficult for me. Hell, trust in my entire family is difficult it seems like. My mom doesn't trust anyone when it comes to friends and I suppose that's where I get it from. Plus a friend of mine from high school stole my parents credit card, so I don't have a great past with it. But again, this is focused on girlfriend/boyfriend.
How do you know if you can trust a person. Perhaps I have no conscious, but the idea of if you tell the truth things will be better, that's totally not true. If you are in a relationship and happen to cheat or do something terrible that deserves a break up, whether or not you tell them the truth, if they find out the relationships over. So, why tell them the truth voluntarily instead of just taking the chance that they might not ever find out? You think I'm an asshole right?
Read my next post and I'll explain.
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