So again, after those two posts am I an ass? Maybe, maybe I just don't have a conscious at all, but hey I didn't cheat. So really, I don't know if I have a conscious or not. I suppose, I'm just a cynical ass who doesn't feel the world has a true conscious. Yes, I realize I'm deeply upsetting Mr. Sigmund Freud. I don't feel telling the truth, in terms of cheating in a relationship gets you anywhere but fighting more and a possible break up. Perhaps that's why I've never had real successful relationships. I just don't trust easily because I realize how easy it is to lie.
IT'S EASY. You just do it. Like Nike.
So we already hit on the fact that telling the truth about cheating gets you the same result, if not a worse result than lying. So how do you ever trust someone. And believe me, once you start doubting your trust for someone, it's so easy to come up with more reasons to doubt.
It's just like that saying, trust is easy to break but so hard to build. It's a lot easier to find reason's not to trust someone than to trust someone.
For instance, you come up with one reason to doubt them, they started getting with another guy while you two were at a party but not technically "together" yet. Then, ex-hookups begin to talk to them as soon as they think you two break up. You remember texts that she's sent to another guy at 2:30am about hanging out (if only they weren't with their boyfriend/girlfriend). Then from there, it's a trickle affect. You think "Oh she loves me too much to cheat on me and could never live if we broke up because of her." Instead of taking that as a good thing, you take it as, "well then she definitely won't tell the truth if she ever does something bad because she knows it will end."
The never ending dilemma of reasons not to trust. You turn something that should be a good, reason to trust her, into a bad and ultimate reason not to.
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